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BONDAGE UNIVERSITY |
Dr.
Bondage's Here's a useful form for learning what play partners are into (for actual play, for fantasy enactment, or just discussion). The list is not necessarily "complete," nor indicative of scenes that can be done for real! There are many good negotiation forms on the Web. This list contains a more detailed bondage section than most. Both players should complete the checklist. |
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PREFERENCES & LIMITS |
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NICKNAME or AKA: Phone #, Email Address, and/or Website: Any health problems? |
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BONDAGE |
DISCIPLINE DISCOMFORT Cross out unacceptable level(s) and/or circle preferred level: 1. Light 2. Medium 3. Intense |
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CROSS OUT UNACCEPTABLE ACTIVITIES AND/OR CIRCLE FAVORITE ACTIVITIES: |
| ATTIRE
topless, naked, dress LINGERIE: panties, pantyhose, stockings, half slip, full slip, nightgown, babydoll FETISH: collar, chastity belt, corset, leather, latex, spandex COSTUMES, UNIFORMS: french maid, nurse, military uniform, harem costume, nun, secretary, boss, cheerleader, school, cowgirl/cowboy, superhero(ine), supervillain(ess), hippie, waitress, bride, swimsuit/bikini on dominant: leather gloves, rubber gloves |
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BONDAGE POSITIONS RECLINING: classic spreadeagle, turned spreadeagle, eiffel, jackknife, strappado, one leg up, two legs up, frog, crossankle, diagonal STANDING: post tie, spreadeagle, eiffel, jackknife, strappado, one leg up, frog, crossankle CHAIR/SEATED: classic, crossankle, legs apart, feet apart, feet up, backward on chair, sideways on chair, strappado BENT OVER BALL TIE FOLD TIE: classic fold, lotus fold CLASSIC/DETECTIVE/BASIC: wrist, ankle, chest, knee HOGTIE: classic, cross-ankle FROGTIE SUSPENSION: in swing, by wrists, by ankles, inverted (upside-down), by thighs, frog, spread-eagle, eiffel KNEELING HAND POSITION: in front, behind, above, sides ANKLE POSITION: parallel, crossed, lotus, apart ORIENTAL/JAPANESE: torso-web, leg-web MUMMIFICATION: plastic wrap (kitchen wrap), duct tape, sheet, cloth, rug, immobilization, sensory deprivation SPECIALTIES: elbows together, crotchrope/genital bondage, breast bondage, hair bondage |
| GAGS, BLINDFOLDS, HOODS
GAGS: BLINDFOLD: sleep mask, cloth, leather HOOD: spandex, leather, cloth |
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BONDAGE MATERIALS ROPE: cotton, nylon, hemp, unmanilla, cord, yarn, mountaineering rope, parachute cord TAPE: duct tape, PVC/electrical tape, scotch tape, masking tape, LEATHER: straps, cuffs, single-glove, harness METAL: handcuffs, chains, locks, spreader bar MEDICAL: stocks, straitjacket, humane restraints CLOTH: sheet strips, cloth strips, neckties, scarves, spandex strips, stockings WOOD: stocks, spreader bar |
| PHYSICAL CONTACT, SEXUALITY
BONDAGE: tied together, tied face-to-face WRESTLING: struggling, pinning, holding down, stripping FONDLING: hug, affection, caress, face, manhandling, teasing, fondling breasts, intimate fondling KISSING: mouth (surface), French, breasts, thighs, intimate PINCHING: breasts, nipples, rear, thighs, more "BITING": neck, shoulder, rear, thighs, breasts TICKLING: feet, tummy, underarm, neck, knee VIBRATOR: surface only, penetration vaginal, anal, to orgasm VAGINAL: masturbation, finger, cunnilingus, intercourse, dilation, labia torment, clit torment DILDOS, PLUGS: oral, vaginal, anal, ben wa balls COCK & BALLS: worship, licking, fellatio, swallowing, torment, "milking" ANAL: finger, rimming, intercourse, enema, felching, roman shower, brown shower, scat play |
| ROLEPLAYS, PLOTS
fantasy stalking, following, lurking |
| PSYCHOLOGICAL
SUBMISSION: kneeling, obedience, following orders, lectures, housework, servitude, chauffeuring, massage, thigh worship DISPLAY: voyeurism, exhibitionism, dancing, performing MIND GAMES: |
| FETISHES
FEET: tickling, spanking, flogging, licking, shrimping (toe-sucking), crushing, foot worship, shoe worship, boot worship TASTE: chocolate, alcohol, foods, sweat, genitals, cum SOFT: feather dusters, feathers, soft implements, fur HAIR: Slow pulling, tugging, head control SHARP: knives, razors, teasing, tickling with blade, shaving legs, shaving crotch, abrasion, scratching, cutting, injections, temporary piercing, permanent piercing WET: ice, liquid, water, food play, lotion, cool cream, hot cream, hot oil, dunking, sploshing, golden shower SCENTS: sweat, perfume, foods, latex, leather, feet, incense, alcohol, cum, urine |
| DISCIPLINE, PERCUSSION
SPANK: hand-spank, rear, feet, muscles, more, over-the-knee, bent over, paddle, tawse, strap, hairbrush, switch, cane, slap breasts, body-slapping RIDING CROP: breasts, rear, legs, more FLOGGER: rear, back, breasts, crotch, stomach SINGLE-TAIL WHIP: teasing, cutting CLAMPS: nipples, breasts, toes, genitals, with weights CLOTHESPINS: nipples, breasts, stomach, genitals, more HOT WAX: front, back, feet, more |
| MARKS: temporary, permanent, tattooing, branding, cigarettes |
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ANYTHING ELSE?
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References: the well-known SM101 by Jay Wiseman and the wonderful S&M: A Player's Handbook by Lady Tanith. |
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| I. Safety |
II. Materials |
III. Basic Rope Techniques |
IV. Advanced Techniques |
V. Negotiate a Bondage Scene |
VI. Rope Marks |
